April 25, 2026

Betrothal 1976

 4/2026 (c)


I can’t picture it now—

the celibacy Michael and I vowed in 1976

when we were seventeen and nineteen.

He moved from Washington to Texas

and I thought it was love.

 

In 1872 England,

the age of consent for prostitutes

was raised from twelve to thirteen.

 

I was never a prostitute,

 

though Michael’s friends suspected I was.

They reported every indiscretion—

a hallway conversation with another boy,

that joy ride with friends in Victor’s cloth-top.

 

My virtue proved through betrothal

bound me—a chastity belt,

wrapped feet, that wouldn’t carry me away.