March 24, 2026

The Beloved Other

 (2001, revised 2026) (c) 


I got here-

one contact after another,

trying to engage him.

 

He was that boy—

singing at Bible Camp, 1973,

in middle-school—

 

ignoring the ridicule:

old-man’s clothes, crew-cut.

His voice—velvet.

 

Or the fourth-grade boy—

who gave me

an embossed, ribbon laced valentine

instead of the dime store punch-outs

 

He set me apart.

 

And that man—

4 a.m., sipping cafe au lait,

talking poetry.

 

He is the loquacious bus driver,

the barista who remembers my order,

my own private celebrity.

 

Once he was once even my husband.

 

But what man can hold him—

long enough? 

 

The drone of days—

the bills, the spills, small fractures—

 

and he becomes

patch and paste.